Many neurodivergent folks struggle with aspects of dating and intimacy that rely on social norms, sensory regulation, and attention management. These challenges can lead to frustrating encounters in the bedroom in moments meant to feel intimate and pleasurable. TurnON.love intimacy coaches Dr. Alison Ash and Sebastian Clarke offer concrete tools and language to navigate these dynamics with more clarity, compassion, and collaboration—for both autistic and ADHD folks and their partners.
In this experiential workshop, we’ll cover:
How to talk about sensory needs and preferences around touch, sound, scent, and space
Strategies for navigating attention, distraction, and arousal regulation during sex
Common neurodivergent and neurotypical relationship dynamics, including initiator-rejector patterns, hyper vs hypo sexuality, and narratives of being too much vs not enough.
Ways neurotypical partners can better support their neurodivergent loved ones and how to co-create alignment around differing needs and desires.
How to create a personalized user manual to help orient yourself and others to your needs and preferences.
You'll leave with communication skills and regulation strategies you can use to feel more grounded, connected, and empowered in dating and intimacy—whether you're partnered and/or preparing for future connections.
Note: This workshop is part of a two-part series. We also invite you to join Neurodivergent Love: Enhancing Emotional Intimacy on November 5th — a recommended (but not required) companion workshop.
Reviews
“Dr. Aly’s compassion and confidence puts rooms of strangers at ease, even while her workshops take you boldly to the most intimate of places. With her expert knowledge, personal skills and creative approaches, she is a gifted facilitator and guide.”- J.W.
“I've taken two workshops led by Dr. Aly. Each has been captivating, informative, interactive, and fun. She has given us the tools and confidence to explore previously uncharted territory and forge a deeper connection. Nearly a year later, we are still referencing the invaluable resources from her class.” - J.D.
Additional details
* Tickets are not refundable. They may be transferred to another individual but not to a future event.
*We welcome folks of all genders, sexual orientations, relationship structures, ages, body types, abilities, races, and ethnicities.