Meet the coaching team
Our team is made up of highly-skilled intimacy coaches who have been thoroughly trained by Dr. Aly’s in her philosophy and methodology.
Working with clients from all over the world, we have an integrative and experiential approach. Each individual coach brings their unique perspective and personality into the coaching relationship. Additionally, our team confidentially discusses cases on a weekly basis in order to create the most optimal, multi-perspective roadmap for you to become your best self.
Sebastian
Sebastian (he/him), aka Seb, is Dr. Aly’s husband and shares with her a passion for cultivating nourishing intimacy. He is an advocate for cultivating embodiment, healthy nervous systems, and sustaining relationships. His training is diverse and vast, including experience as a mindfulness educator and as a trauma sensitive massage therapist. In addition, he has years of experience working with neurodivergent individuals of all ages and has a variety of training and specialized skills with this population. He also has training with the Sexual Health Alliance, where he has refined his understanding of how to support people of all kinds to find and maintain the intimacy they desire.
His work is rooted in positive psychology, trauma-sensitivity and inclusion of all kinds of people, sexual preferences and relationship styles. He is particularly adept at supporting individuals who want to increase their capacity for nervous system regulation and pleasure, cis-men who are craving more intimacy in their lives, couples navigating challenges related to maintaining intimacy in long-term relationships, as well as individuals and couples exploring non-monogamy. Working with Seb will help you uncover what is getting in the way from living your truth and give you practical tools and support to bring your whole self into exploring sex and intimacy.
What clients say:
“I now feel more confident dating and expressing myself. Seb taught me how to connect with women in new ways and how to be a more competent lover.”
— M.C.
“Sebastian provides such a comforting container for me to be held and witnessed in my process. He has helped me to start my healing journey through some deep intimacy wounds.”
— L.B.
“Seb helped us work through some very difficult challenges we were having and find our way back to each other. Our intimacy is better than ever!”
— C.F.
Siri
Siri (she/they) is an intimacy coach, facilitator, trainer, guide, and mentor. As a coach, Siri is inspired by the statement ‘‘move at the speed of trust’, supporting men, women, and couples to find safety in relating while exploring healthy edges for growth and research. She holds intimacy as liberatory work, offering practices to support expression of authentic vulnerability and sexual expression. She offers tools for embodiment and self regulation, grounded in her Soma Source education and years of study of dance, somatic awareness, anti-racism and creative liberation.
In addition to nine years of collaborations with the Tamera Peace Research Center and their Global Love School, Siri has deeply apprenticed lineages supporting interpersonal relationships and is a certified Council Trainer and seasoned Rite of Passage Guide. She offers transformational spaces for individuals and couples through tracking and supporting the basic human needs of belonging and connection and supporting clients as they intentionally begin, deepen, or complete intimate relationships. With training in conscious communication and mediation, Siri loves to support challenging conversations, offering skills and practices to support understanding and trust in relating.
What clients say:
"My wife and I trust Siri instinctively... Her mastery of communication not only unraveled our knots, but it permanently upgraded our communication as a couple."
— C.E.
“Sir’s artful mix of clear observation and open-ended questions, wise caution and warm encouragement, enabled multiple breakthroughs for me, navigating a new, fairly complex relational situation.”
— K.L.
“Siri’s gifts are grace under pressure, great sensitivity, emotional competence, and unshakeable integrity. With her on your side, it’s much easier to be your best self, especially in relationship.”
— S.O.
Ready for the next step?
Schedule a complementary 20-minute consultation with Dr. Aly to explore your goals for coaching and learn about her experiential coaching approach. Discover how working with Dr. Aly or another coach on her team will support you in having the depth of intimacy you desire.